If you  really love a person, I think you wouldn't say "I love you" everyday though you mean it. However, can you image a person never say one word about "love" from the cradle to the grave.

I heard about some fathers like that.

Men, always don't know how to express their feeling or emotion, always hide their love in the bottom of their heart. They just try their best to protect the families, to give the better life to them, to make them  be proud of him. 

We appreciate their silent love······So,  if your father is too busy to say "l love you" to you, don't complain it·····You only have to do one thing, say "I love you" to him.

希望每位有个好爸爸的，都要好好珍惜～！

There' s hardly a person alive who bears no scars.

世界几乎上没有一个活着的人身上是没有疤痕的。

Intellectually, scars are great; in some ways, there's something romantic about the possibility of a more sordid past.

"Scars are souvenirs you never lose"

“疤痕是你永远不会丢失的纪念品”

所以，根本不需要在意那些在你身上的小小痕迹，它们是你生命的印记······

女孩一直很想问这个问题，今天终于说了出口：

“你会爱我多久啊？”

男孩用手指比了个“一”······

“一天？

一个星期？

还是一辈子啊？”

男孩用手比着说：

“一············一直到你

不爱我那一天。”

琴日睇到一个故事，系讲一个美国既女仔······

距从中学开始就有一个理想，可能好多人都认为距无大志，好多人都唔会认同距去追求呢个理想，因为······距想成为一个妻子同妈妈······

人地会话，个个女人都可以做到喇，呢个点可以作为一个人生目标呢？距应该去学自己想学既野，去做自己想做既工作，去自己想去既地方······呢个女仔都一度好迷惘，自己既理想比甘多人反对，系米应该放弃呢？

无几耐距就认识左距丈夫，当时距已经决定将一生交托比呢个人，因为爱，令距重燃希望，因为信任，令距有继续追求理想既动力······

虽然呢个男人对距真系好好，真系值得托付终生，但系上了大学以后，更多反对既声音出现，家人、同学、老师······都觉得呢个女仔唔应该浪费青春，除左一个人······距既一个大学英语老师。呢个女老师系唯一支持距实现自己理想既人，仲同距讲：“跟住你心中的感觉走啦！”（Following your heart！）

毕业后，呢个女仔亦都真系成为一个妻子同妈妈，不断学习点样维持一个家庭，相夫教子，成为一个全职家庭主妇。距丈夫亦都好努力赚钱，养活整个家庭，令妻子可以安心教育孩子，管理家庭······可惜，生活又点会永远一帆风顺。

一年夏天，丈夫因为一次交通意外，失去左一只脚，亦都失去左工作能力。顿时，整个家庭失去了支柱，生活一天不如一天。妻子决定出外工作，呢个亦都系距尽妻子同妈妈既责任，担起呢头家。但系，谈何容易啊！

因为多年照顾家人而培养出既细心、耐性，终于比距稳到一份老师既工作，但系微薄既薪金有点可以养活一家呢······好在，距任教既学校通知，有人愿意每年资助一笔奖学金比距，日子总算挨过去了。之后距一直想多谢呢位帮助距既人，所以通过学校约见左距。

一直坚强既距点都忍唔住眼中既泪水，因为，面前既，竟然系当年唯一支持距鼓励距既英文老师！白发苍苍既老师微笑住讲，“你一定会幸福架，因为你有Following your heart！”

换下个版面，唔想自己甘灰暗

虽然我都只不过系一个系大迷宫里面的小角色，但系我唔可以迷失自己。可能你唔一定知道牵连住你既线，另一端系边，有几长，有几远`````不过记住，珍惜你衣家手中捉住既先系最重要，好多野难以预料，咩事都可能发生、改变，如果唔识得珍惜身边既人，睇翻自己既一生果时实会后悔葛``````

下一个路口，唔知转左定右

Backgroud Music <Life is like a boat>

I felt down yesterday evening and I thought too much about it. Even if I told myself , let the thing go its way, but I still couldn't stop my thoughts. Why? 

发现这个东西不错,而且是英文版的:

A BLACK MAN WALKS INTO A CAFE EARLY ONE MORNING AND NOTICES HE'S THE ONLY ONE THERE

AS HE SAT DOWN HE NOTICED A WHITE MAN SAT BEHIND HIM, THE WHITE MAN SAID "COLOURED PEOPLE ARN'T ALLOWED IN HERE" .

THE BLACK MAN REPLIED...

"WHEN I WAS BORN I WAS BLACK

WHEN I GREW UP I WAS BLACK

WHEN I'M SICK I'M BLACK

WHEN I GO IN THE SUN I'M BLACK

WHEN I'M COLD I'M BLACK

AND WHEN I DIE I'M BLACK.

BUT YOU SIR...

WHEN YOU WERE BORN YOU WERE PINK

WHEN YOU'RE SICK YOU'RE GREEN

WHEN YOU STAY IN THE SUN YOU'RE RED

WHEN YOU'RE COLD YOU TURN BLUE

AND WHEN YOU DIE YOU TURN PURPLE."

"AND YET YOU HAVE THE NERVE TO CALL ME COLOURED!"

THE BLACK MAN TURNED BACK AROUND AND THE WHITE MAN WALKED AWAY.

COPY THIS INTO YOUR SPACE AND HELP ERASE RACISM!!

          女人过于依赖男人，总是一种悲哀。

适当的距离产生美，适当的独立产生尊严，适当的保留产生神秘。

 

爱情给人幸福，搞不好，就成了罂粟。

勇气给人冲力，不小心，就成了担心。

所以“最怕你忽然说要放弃”成了萦绕心头的阴影，挥之不去。

 

爱一个人就要爱他的全部，不能爱他的全部也要宽容而非迁就；

爱一个人就要一定程度的“捆绑”，为了融合彼此的“文化”，磨合彼此的行为准则，该放弃的就需要放弃。

爱一个人还要爱他的家庭，叫他的父母爸妈，因为是他们养育了你的爱人，是他们呵护了你的爱人，是他们把出现在你生命中的这个人变成了这样一个你爱的人。

爱一个人是欣赏他，宽容他，教育他，鼓励他。

爱人之间是永远的情人、兄妹、姐弟、父女、母子、朋友、甚至宠物…

你觉得呢？

 

Today is a little busy day~I have gone several places, GZ is a big big city(I never know until now)! It's so many different people and things here, you won't know how this day become and what will happen in the next second~~

I try to find myself in this big big city, but I think it's not so easy like I think.

Nobody can always by your side, I know~~ 

So I want to enjoy everything I have in this time.

Special feeling

1、今天我要很开心。因为林肯说过：“多半的人都可以决定自己要有多快乐。”快乐源于人的内心，它并非外来之物。

2、今天我要调适自己，而并非调整世界来配合我。我要让自己配合我的家庭、事业与机运。

3、今天我要照顾自己的身体。我要运动、关心它、滋养它、不滥用它、不忽略它，使它成为我心灵的殿堂。

4、今天我要强化我的心灵。我要学习，不让心灵闲置，我将阅读需要专注、思想与努力的读物。

5、今天我要由三方面操演我的心灵：我要默默地为某人做一件好事。起码做两件我不想做的事，照威廉·詹姆士所说的，只是为了让心灵演练，不致怠憜。

6、今天我要使自己怡人。我要使自己看来愉悦，穿着合宜，轻声慢语，举止恰当，多予赞赏，少作批评，不找任何事的毛病，也不想挑任何人的缺点。

7、今天我要全心全意去活这一天，不去想我整个的人生。一天工作12小时固然很好，如果想到一辈子都得如此，可能会先吓坏我自己。

8、今天我要制定计划。我要计划每小时要做的事。可能不能完全遵行，但我还是要计划，为的是避免仓促及犹豫不决。

9、今天我要给自己保留半小时轻松时间。我要用这半小时祈祷，想想我人生的远景。

10、今天我将无所畏惧，特别是我不怕更快乐，更享受人生的美好；也不怕更去爱人，相信我爱的人亦爱我。

Todayv is Mother's Day~~! My grandma said she must  eat vegetables only in this day because that she is a Buddhist and today is the first day in lunar calendar.  So we celebrated this festival yesterday!

     In fact, the date is not such important, the regards are more important than it. If you love you parents and know how to express you love to them, then everyday is festival!!

I give up one job tomorrow. Though it is difficult to decide what is suitable to me, but I think learning to abandon is very important for the young people, because you should be clear that what you want and what you need!

         I feel confident that I have much more chance in my life, so I won't be disappoint any more.

         Thanks for someone who always encourage me and give me fresh energy!